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While some people enjoy pain with their pleasure, nobody’s likely eager to incur an unintended injury while getting it on. Certain precautions should be taken against common lovemaking-related injuries. It may seem like only more adventurous moves would require care, but some of the common causes of injury take place during the most “vanilla” of escapades. So, in the interest of maintaining proper male organ care and attending to the well-being of his partner, a man should be aware of the following injuries and take steps to prevent them.
1) Female Organ Tearing: Some women’s skin is more susceptible to tearing than others. If a couple is having sensual activity for a long time, and/or if the activity is rough, a female partner is very likely to experience some degree of female organ tearing.

While a couple might not be able to avoid this completely, they can take steps to limit the tearing that occurs. The very first thing to do is to make sure a woman is amply lubricated. This may be natural, product-assisted or a combination of both, depending on how much natural lubrication a woman produces when turned on. Men can also ease her open with a finger or two to start, and take care to enter slowly when it’s time for penetration, thrusting gently at first. Finally, a couple should perform lube checks every time they change positions, adding more product if needed.

2) Manhood Chafing: As with female organ tearing, it may be hard to prevent any sort of chafing from rough or prolonged sensual activity. Like women, guys benefit from ample lubrication. If they are wearing a barrier, they can squeeze a bit of lube into the tip to protect the head against friction. They can also benefit from using a moisturizer on the male organ daily to keep the skin healthy and supple.

3) Posterior Injury: According to a 2009 study conducted at the University of Alabama School of Public Health, visits to the emergency room attributed to sensual toy injuries have doubled since 1995. Researchers found that 74% involved a vibrator, 78% occurred to the read end and 83% involved “foreign body removal.” From this, one can conclude that a whole bunch of people got a sensual toy stuck in their behinds.

Now, surely that’s not a common injury. But it’s best avoided, as is the more common tearing that can occur from posterior play. Lube is the key here, as well as not using a toy that is massive, at least if a man or woman is a beginner to back-door adventures.

4) Nerve Damage: For the couple interested in role play, it’s of the utmost importance to make sure restraints aren’t too tight. A person should be able to slip two fingers between the rope or other material and the person’s skin.

On top of that, the untied partner should do “feel tests” every few minutes. Make sure the partner’s circulation or nerve supply is not being cut off by pressing an area below the restraints (for example, the hands if the wrists are bound) to verify that he or she can feel it. Also, look out for any discoloration.

Fortunately, preventing these types of injuries is not difficult. Investing in a good lube is key, and men may want to try a male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) for moisturizing their members, protecting themselves against chafing and friction. It’s best to go with a product made for the male organ in order to avoid irritating the sensitive skin with chemical ingredients or fragrances. Using sensual toys wisely is another important preventive measure, as is practicing caution when getting into role play. With these steps in mind, men and their partners can make sure that any pain they may experience is associated with pleasure, not injury.

Men: Don’t underestimate the power of pre-play. And whether penetration is on the table or not, there are ways to pleasure a woman that ought not be neglected. Along with practicing proper male organ care and learning how to use his member well, a man should beef up on his outer play skills.
There are many reasons a man may neglect developing and implementing such skills. He may be nervous that he won’t “do it right,” and feel embarrassed about not knowing what to do. He also may just be so wrapped up in his own pleasure that he ignores that of his partner. These issues need to be overcome. Sensual activity, whether penetrative or not, involves two people. Two people should be experiencing pleasure. The following tips can help men more fully engage their partners during outer play.

1) Be confident. Being afraid to do things during sensual play is a big deterrent to actually doing things. If a partner has expressed consent (clearly and explicitly), then she wants the man. That should be a confidence-booster in itself.

2) Also, be humble. However, being confident doesn’t mean diving into new activities without first getting the okay and knowing what she likes. It is in no way a sign of weakness or ineptitude to ask a woman what she wants. Rather, when a man does so, he shows that he respects her as an individual with unique desires. He also shows that he wants to give her the most pleasure possible – a huge turn-on!

3) Mouth play. Kissing is often the first step toward sensual activity (though one should never assume the latter is an inevitable outcome of the act). While preferences vary, it’s a good bet that a woman doesn’t want to be slobbered all over. A man should try to keep his lips on hers rather than engulfing the lower half of her face. Swallow from time to time to prevent excess saliva from covering her face. Be gentle at first when moving the lips around her body; she may like nibbling, but let her tell you, or ask her. She may not be into it at all, or she may want to see your marks on her days later. Don’t assume.

4) Nipple play. If a woman has expressed interest in nipple play, begin gently. Some women like very light caresses with fingers and the tongue; others like rough twisting, pinching and pulling; others like something in between. It’s best to err on the side of caution. Ask her, “Is that good? Is this too rough? Do you want it rougher?” She’ll tell you what she’s comfortable with. Starting off with the more extreme stuff can cause pain, an immediate turn-off (for some).

5) C-Spot play. If a man isn’t sure how far a woman wants to go, he should ask if it’s okay if he touches her down there. Or, best case scenario, she may put his hand there herself. It’s normal for guys to be a bit hesitant about stimulating her, because a guy might not be sure how a woman likes it. Here as in other situations, it’s best to be gentle. Start with slow, soft circles around her C-spot. A man will hear her responses, and he can slowly speed up or increase pressure, asking her along the way if she likes it like that. If tongue action is desired, proceed in a likewise cautious fashion.

6) Fingering. Once she begins to get wet, the partners may desire some internal finger action. Don’t just jab two or three fingers in there; start by circling the entrance, then slide one finger in, moving it around. Most women enjoy G-spot stimulation, which requires more than just thrusting a finger (or two) in and out. With a man’s palm facing her C-spot, he can wiggle his finger in a “come hither” motion a couple inches in, varying speed. He’ll know if he’s hitting the spot by her reaction.

Along with asking permission and questions throughout outer play, a man can up his game by taking the best care of his male organ possible. This will make a man’s member more appealing and inviting to his partner. Avoiding dry, flaky skin and unwanted odors are crucial steps here. Along with proper washing, using a male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can go a long way. Natural moisturizers like Shea butter and vitamin E keep the skin soft and supple, while vitamin A fights odor-causing bacteria. Knowing how to pleasure her is key; so is presenting a manhood that she wants to touch.

When a man has a healthy male organ, he likes for others to admire it – in the proper setting, such as a bedroom. Sometimes, however, male organ slips occur while in public, putting a man in a situation where his manhood is suddenly on display for all to see. Exhibitionists may relish this situation, but for many men this can be a case for extreme embarrassment. Even those who have been practicing superb male organ care don’t necessarily want that fact broadcast in public.
Below are several examples of male organ slips and actions that a man can take to cover up and/or prevent the exposure. It always pays to be prepared.

The open fly.

This is probably the situation which affords the most unintentional public manhood showings. A man is at a gathering and goes to the bathroom to relieve himself and forgets to zip back up when he is finished. He wanders back into a room full of people with his fly open. At first, things may be fine; no one notices the little faux pas, least of all the man himself. Unfortunately, he becomes engaged in a conversation with an especially attractive woman and after a minute realizes his healthy male organ is poking out, firm and proud, from his pants.

An evasive maneuver is most definitely called for. Crossing his hands in front of his crotch will do for a start, but if he has a fully tumescent member, this may not provide sufficient coverage. If an object, such as a book, is nearby, it can help to grab the object and hold it over the area. In a best case scenario, a man may be holding a jacket or sweater and can nonchalantly use this for a cover up. As soon as possible, he needs to excuse himself and retire to the bathroom or another private area to fix the situation.

Clearly, wearing underwear is one way to lessen the chance that the open fly issue will lead to a male organ slip. It also helps to make sure that the fly on the underwear closes and covers properly.

Gym shorts.

Working out at the gym requires taking some wide open stances. In many cases, especially when on a bench press type of machine, this can result in the manhood and sack falling into view through the leg opening of the shorts.

Fortunately, most people carry a towel while doing a workout, so simply spreading the towel across the lap may be enough to hide male organ slips of this sort. Also, wearing an athletic supporter rather than loose underwear can be a big help.

Rough waves.

Spending a summer day at the ocean can be great, especially when the surf is roaring and creating big waves. Unfortunately, sometimes those waves can pull down a guy’s swimsuit. In these cases, a man needs to keep the waist below water as he rights the situation.

But what if the wave is so rough it pulls the suit all the way off and a guy can’t find it? In this situation, he needs to remain waist-deep in water and get the attention of another male swimmer. Explain the situation and ask if he can please go ashore and return with a towel big enough to wrap around the midsection. He may get some ribbing from the guy, but it’s better than walking ashore and getting a public indecency citation.

Embarrassing as male organ slips are, exposing a healthy male organ is preferable to one with dry, flaky skin or other issues. Regularly using a quality male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps in this area. Natural hydrators like Shea butter and vitamin E should be included in the crème, to make sure the organ is well moisturized and the skin is at its best. In addition, a potent antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid helps prevents an unsightly “wrinkled” manhood look. And a crème with L-arginine can prevent a display of broken capillaries in the member. If it is going to be shown, show it at its best!

What are retirement communities? How different are they from retirement and nursing homes?

Retirement homes are facilities meant for older folks. While they’re an ideal option for some, they lack in one important aspect: opportunities for social interaction. At the very least, retirement homes have recreation and gathering areas, but it’s often restricted to exactly that. Active adult communities are built for the purpose of independent living and social interaction.

Most retirement homes have their residents live in apartment-style rooms. With retirement communities in New York, retirees have more housing options. Even though it varies from developer to developer, communities offer you condominium, townhouse, and villa style homes. In many instances, it’s like residing in a premiere gated suburban community.

Among many other things, the main difference between nursing homes and retirement communities is the health care they provide. As the name suggests, nursing homes are for people who require constant care. These facilities provide care for their residents. Residents of nursing homes consist of those who have trouble with their day to day activities as a result of old age. That’s not something you’re looking for yet. In fact, by seeking an active lifestyle, that’s the type of thing you’re looking to prevent.

What are some of the things I should consider when looking into active adult communities in New York?

One thing to look at is the location. Is the community found in a convenient area? Could it give you access to the best things New York can offer? Choose a place that will offer rest and recreation in a modern suburban location.

Security is another major factor to think about. You’re moving into the community with things you’ve worked hard for. The protection of these items, and yours of course, must be a priority. There are retirement communities in New York offering 24 hour gated security. You may want to consider that.

The best and most important thing you should search for is the facilities available. With retirement comes plenty of free time. Here are a few things you may want to look for.